Brewing Master

Question:

Chris, Please be very careful about the decisions you make over the next couple of weeks. You sound like you are an emotional basketcase at this point. Yes, you do need to find out the truth, but I suspect deep down you know the truth but don’t want to accept it yet. From what you have related I would guess that one of several things is going on 1) She wants to end it with Mike but is too chicken or wants him as a backup. 2) She wants out of the relationship with you but doesn’t know how to tell you. 3) Wants out of it with Mike but is afraid that he will tell you the truth about happened if she dumps him. 4) She doesn’t really know what she wants so she’s keeping both of you around. Now, for a few questions, did you confront her with what Mike said (especially the conversations)? What was her response? What does she tell you she wants? Are you sure you really want to know what happened between them? Or do you just want to hear that nothing happened? If you find out that she has slept with him are you prepared to stay in this relationship? I think you need to answer these questions before you proceed with anything else. Then I know a question I would ask Mike…."Mike if you were me what would you do?" I figure you can find out alot by his response. Good Luck, sophia

Response:

I hear ya! I have to! Two marriages before. In all fairness to her but in no way condoning her actions I should let you know we have always had problems ie. 2 domestic battery charges against myself and 1 against her. As a successful salesman for the last 18 years I have always had the gift of being able to read people in a moment! What do you think of this? She has done what she admitted to. But I tend to believe that she doesn’t want to let me have the satisfaction of knowing they were not in love and had never had sex for the simple reason that she is enjoying the attention that she feels she never had. I can say this! We have had sex twice in the last week and it was more than good. It was incredible for both of us. It was like the first time! You know how it is when you first meet? The kisses are long and sweet. It’s the newness. And it always seems to wear off after time. It was not anything like that! And after the first time the other day I thought it couldn’t be better. But yesterday it was! Make any sense? Chris Horton Sales Manager/Partner www.theadvisor.net www.slurp.net – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Sophia wrote in message <6bahig$cv…@news4.ispnews.com>… >Chris, >Please be very careful about the decisions you make over the next couple of >weeks. You sound like you are an emotional basketcase at this point. Yes, >you do need to find out the truth, but I suspect deep down you know the >truth but don’t want to accept it yet. From what you have related I would >guess that one of several things is going on >1) She wants to end it with Mike but is too chicken or wants him as a >backup. >2) She wants out of the relationship with you but doesn’t know how to tell >you. >3) Wants out of it with Mike but is afraid that he will tell you the truth >about happened if she dumps him. >4) She doesn’t really know what she wants so she’s keeping both of you >around. >Now, for a few questions, did you confront her with what Mike said >(especially the conversations)? What was her response? >What does she tell you she wants? >Are you sure you really want to know what happened between them? Or do you >just want to hear that nothing happened? >If you find out that she has slept with him are you prepared to stay in this >relationship? >I think you need to answer these questions before you proceed with anything >else. >Then I know a question I would ask Mike…."Mike if you were me what would >you do?" >I figure you can find out alot by his response. >Good Luck, >sophia

Response:

This is what happened to me last week. The following is what I prepared to give to her which I did. On top of that after finally starting to come around and begin to be able to talk enough to finally come over to her house I suprise her with a gift and card from Victorias Secret. Everything is going great. She all week had told me she had told him to never call again and that she had not heard from him at all. Here’s the kicker! We have been in bed for no more than five minutes and had just started to kiss and hold each other when the phone rings. And guess what the caller ID said? It was Mike the other guy that you will read about later. She doesn’t want to answer it. So I do. I’m thinking she has something to hide by not answering it and telling him in front of me without him knowing I’m there. I pick it up and say hello? His reply was Chris? I saod yeah! He said hows it going? I said here I’ll let you talk to Laura. This will finally give me an oppurtunity to listen in on what he says to her. But she won’t let me do it. I couldn’t beleive it! She finally has a chance to help me to beleive her by letting me hear what he says to her without him knowing I’m listening in and she blows it. I am blown away. It leaves me with one thought. Shes hiding something! So again she tells me the same bullshit she has been telling me every time I have wanted to listen in via three-way. I’m not going to let you manipulate me. What do I do????? I DON